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Dear Egypt,

I’ve been dating this guy for eight months now. We live together and when we first got together I knew about one baby’s momma. Throughout these 8 months he told me he has a stalker who is now trying to pin her baby on him. He always denied the fact that the child was his. He told me she was crazy and just wanted to trap him. Now it turns out that the baby IS his. He’s been acting weird lately and doesn’t treat me the same. When he goes to visit his daughter one day he left at 5pm and came in at 2:30am. I started to question him about how things went and he said fine. I was suspicious so I asked him if he did anything with her and he started to scream at me like ‘why am I accusing him of cheating on me’ and I told him that I don’t trust him. So now I am dealing with 2 baby mamas and I am about to have his child. So I was wondering should I leave him or stick by him?
Mimi

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Dear Egypt,

So the other day I went out to a bar and across the room from me I spot my friend Rob’s (Don’t worry I changed his name) girlfriend. Now I was caught off guard because she was having drinks with some guy I didn’t know. When he got up, I went over to say hi. Immediately she started going on this whole thing about “this isn’t what it looks like ” and “please don’t tell Rob you saw me here, I told him I was on a girl’s night out.” I said “Why’d you tell him that?”, and she tells me, “Oh just because I wanted to catch up with my friend, but Rob’s so jealous, he would have never let me go out with some other guy.” So I said “alright” and went back to my table.

Now, to be fair, it didn’t look like they were flirting or anything, just having a good time. But now I’m wondering if I should tell Rob about the whole incident. I told his girl I wouldn’t, but my first allegiance is really to Rob. So should I tell him? Or if his girl is truly creeping, maybe it’s better if he didn’t hear it from me…….

Anonymous

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Dear Egypt,

I have 3 daughters age 25, 21 and 17! Now as you know a mother tries to teach her daughters how to find a good man and not an old piece of Sh*t! My 25 year old has 3 kids. The oldest is 10 then 5 then 1. Her “boyfriend” s the father of the last two but he doesn’t do anything for them! He doesn’t help her with any bills and he has a kid the same age as her five year old! He pays so much child support to his other five year old that he doesn’t feel he needs to pay any money for the two that live with him! He always tells her to get out the house and take “her” kids with her! One day he told her to get out so she said “ok I’m moving”, then he goes “wait baby I love you let’s get married”! Now she’s talking about getting married to this little boy who can’t help her pay a damn bill! He ain’t sh*t, his momma ain’t Sh*t, and if she doesn’t get out of this relationship immediately my grandchildren will follow in his footsteps! Egypt I know you will have so much advice for me on this subject!
Momma L Boogie

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Dear Egypt,

My best friend is a liar! She lies all the time. Recently she has come up with one of the biggest lies ever! Almost two years ago she got pregnant (we were still in high school). And when ask who the babies’ father was, she said she got raped! I have talked to all of our close mutual friends (including her boyfriend, which we know is the father!) and everyone knows she’s lying! Rape is not something to joke around with! Should we confront her, or let the lie eat her up until she finally tells us the truth? Girl, please help me out!
Ruby Eyez

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After counseling a dear friend about how to cope with the unbearably meddling mother of her husband’s 8 year old daughter, and receiving numerous advice letters from sisters who were hurt , broken, confused and therefore misdirecting their anger, I felt the need to address the women of the world about how we treat one another and moreover, how we treat ourselves.

I want you to keep in mind that each of these stories are real and the women in these stories are all educated, accomplished, and normally very sensible ladies. What they all have in common is that they each gave up their “Power”, and somewhere along the line lost control of their emotions.

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Dear Egypt,

I’ve been dating this guy for almost 5 years and I love him with all my heart. The thing is we’ve been through so much and I took him back through all the wrong he’s ever done to me. Two years into our relationship he cheated and had a baby with some other girl. Being stupid in love took him back because I thought that we could get through anything. Now it’s been 4 years and 6 months that we’ve been together and I know that he’s cheating again. I’ve never loved somebody as much as I love him. I know without a doubt that he feels the same as I do he just can’t show it. I try to get advice from my friends but the thing is they all tell me I’m stupid for trying to stick it out with him. I’ve been through absolutely everything with him through losing a child and so much more. I’m practically dying inside because he always says to me that he doesn’t want to lose me, but all he’s doing is pushing me away……Egypt please could you give me a little advice as to what to do because with him being my first love I feel like I’m slipping away at the thought of us splitting up. I have to know if I’m doing the right thing by staying with him.

Nelly

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