The old saying goes ‘What’s good for the goose, is good for the gander,’ but what if your goose is stingy with theirs? On last night’s episode of “Single Ladies” Val’s (Stacey Dash character) “perfect guy” turned out to be anything but, when in the throws of passion he announced he didn’t “dine on Southern cuisine.” *blank stare* For Val (and most women living in 2011 and not 1920) this was a major no-no and she cut dude loose. See ya!
But could you?
For most, reciprocity is key to ensuring that your partner’s satisfaction is guaranteed, but some people out there are just plain selfish! They want all the perks of good lovin’ without having to give any good lovin’ themselves. As far as these love hogs are concerned, your needs don’t come before theirs between the sheets, and the selfish behavior can go way past the “Southern cuisine” issue.
Have you ever encountered a selfish lover? If you were in Val’s position, would you suck it up and go without? Or would his/her unrefined palette be an absolute dealbreaker?